If you feel you might be in danger if someone discovers that 
		you have
        visited this site, see note at bottom.* 
        Domestic
        abuse is a pattern of coercive, intimidating, violent, or cruel
        behavior used to control an intimate partner or family members.  
        It destroys lives, families, and relationships, and tears at the fabric
        of our society.  The Olympia Union Gospel Mission (OUGM) ministers to
        domestic abuse needs in a variety of ways, on the basis of biblical
        truths about domestic abuse issues.  We encourage you to visit our 
		 Bible
        studies and lessons to see what the Bible says about abuse as sin;
        domestic violence dynamics; victim safety; submission; forgiveness;
        divorce and remarriage; godly boundaries; and much more.
        
        
        
        
        * IMPORTANT NOTE FOR YOUR SAFETY   
        An abuser may be
        able to tell which Internet sites you have visited on your
        computer.  The safest places to find information on the Internet
        are at a local library, a friend's home computer, or at
        work.   
         
        Most Internet browser programs
        (Internet Explorer, Navigator, AOL, and others) create a "history
        file" that shows a list of what has been viewed on your computer.
        If you feel you might be in danger if someone discovers that you have
        visited this site, make sure to delete the history file and "temporary Internet files".  Do not save,
        "bookmark", or save as a Favorite" risky pages in your browser or other Internet
        software. 
        FOR MORE INFORMATION:  
                 >  see the Help
        menu of your internet software and "My Computer" in Microsoft systems. 
                 >  see detailed
        advice at http://www.abanet.org/domviol/internet.html   
                           
        and http://www.womenslaw.org/internet.htm    
                             
        Instructions for deleting risky items from the History folder and
        Temporary Internet Files:    
              
        INTERNET EXPLORER: 
        1. 
        In the menu bar, select "Tools", then "Internet
        Options."  
        2.  On "General" tab, under "Temporary Internet
        Files," click on "Delete Files." If asked, check the box
        to delete all offline content. Still within the Temporary Internet Files
        section, click on Settings. (This next step may make it harder to
        navigate pages where you'd like your information to be remembered, but
        these remaining cookies do show website pages you have visited.
        Therefore, use your own judgment as to whether or not to take this next
        step). Click on "View Files." Manually highlight all the files
        (cookies) shown, then hit Delete.  
        3.  On the same "General" tab, look for the
        "History" section.  Select "Clear History."
        In Windows 98: 
        1)  Click on Start button 
        2)  Select "Taskbar and Start Menu" 
        3)  Select the "Start Menu" tab 
        4)  Click on "Open Office Document" 
        5)  Open the "History" folder and erase any files from
        this website.
        
        NETSCAPE: 
        1.  In the menu bar, select "Edit", then select
        "Preferences."  
        2.  On Navigator, choose "Clear History".  
        3.  Click on "Advanced" then select "Cache." 
        4. Select "Clear Disk Cache". 
        On older versions of Netscape, go to the "Options" menu.
        Select "Network Options," and then "Cache." Select
        "Clear Disk Cache".
        AOL: 
        1.  In the menu bar, select "Members," then select
        "Preferences." 
        2.  Select the WWW icon.  
        3.  Select "Advanced" and "Purge Cache."
        Additionally, a victim
        needs to make sure that the "Use Inline Autocomplete" box is
        NOT checked. This function will complete a partial web address while
        typing a location in the address bar at the top of the browser.  If
        you are using Internet Explorer, this box can be found on the MS
        Internet Explorer Page by clicking on "Tools" at the top of
        the screen, then "Internet Options," and then the
        "Advanced" tab. About halfway down there is a "Use inline
        AutoComplete" box that can be checked and unchecked by clicking on
        it. Uncheck the box to disable the feature that automatically completes
        an internet address when you start typing in the internet address box.
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